The Fertility Gift Guide I Wish Existed, by Abbe Feder
No one understands the fertility phase quite like someone who’s lived it. The waiting, the hoping, the quiet recalibrations—it’s a season that’s hard to explain unless you’ve been there. That’s why we asked Abbe to share the gifts she reached for (and wished she had) while navigating her own fertility journey. Thoughtful, practical, and rooted in real experience, these are the kinds of gifts that say I see you, without needing to say much at all.


- Nod Pod: New obsession. Helps to soothe, relax, with headaches, and when you can't sleep
- Cozy Earth: y ou need to stay cozy and warm through every part. Especially the feet for circulation (slippers, socks, etc.)!
- Cards of Love (obviously!): the support you need, plus art, in your pocket
- Epsom Salt: I believe wholeheartedly in "salt's cure:" sweat, cry, ocean, or salt bath. This has you covered for a relaxing bath
- 100 Pure: pamper yourself and know it's CLEAN
- Stims Wellness Bag: if you need to carry any medical supplies with you on the go
- Chiyo's Fertility Enhance Program: ideally you start their program 3 months before TTC! You can gift it as a "I see you" - without pressure or expectation, and they schedule on their timeline.